As you poke around our erotic social network, you might think that there’s really only one way to be a cuckold. But that couldn’t be further from the truth! What turns the cuckold on is personal to every man. Really, the only way to do it wrong is to try to fight it and not allow yourself to enjoy it! The following are some distinctions between what things turn some cuckolds on, and other ones off.
The Creampie
Lots of cuckolds like to lick their partners clean after an encounter. Really, it’s just good cuckold ettiquete! However, not every cuckold is into this. Some like it to a lesser extreme, like smelling or tasting another man on their slut wife but aren’t interested in going as far as cum eating.
To suck cock or not to suck cock, that is the question!
It’s very common for cuckolds to be interested in cocksucking as a way of fluffing the cuckold bull for the woman. Some of them prefer to feel coerced or seduced into it. Some men just plain feel it’s a nice thing to do for the women they love, while others enjoy the aspect of erotic humiliation they feel for sucking cock. Some cuckolds are even interested in sissification, dressing like a woman during the encounters or to help their wife find a bull. Which brings us to the next point…
Cuckold Humiliation
Cuckold humiliation can be achieved in a variety of ways. Some cuckolds like to be sort of played for a fool, by their wife not being open about her activities. For others, it involves being stuck watching their woman with another man, perhaps reduced to masturbation and rejection by the woman. And of course, cocksucking and cum eating can be involved in the humiliation aspect. Some cuckolds are even interested in sissification, dressing like a woman during the encounters or to help their wife find a bull.
More often than not, the cuckold feels like he can’t satisfy the woman and thus she deserves other partners. They feel that their size or skill is not adequate. Other cuckolds enjoy the feeling their wife is so attractive to other men, an unusual way of viewing her as a trophy.
What now?
Maybe you were wondering if you might be a cuckold, and hopefully this essay has clarified things for you, especially if you are not the typical cocksucking, cum eating cuckold.I would be happy to give you cuckold instructions and assignments. The great thing about this particular type of fetish phone sex is that there’s so many ways to play! We can talk about a fantasy of yours or I can describe a cuckolding scenario to you, or we can actually role play it, or we can talk about what it is that turns you on about cuckolding!
I can’t wait to hear your opinions…and what sort of cuckold YOU are!
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Hi Mistress Nicole,
I fit in to all of the kinds of a the cuckold. Especially the creampie and humiliation. When you are a little boy that is well below avearge you should cleanup after a superior male that does something that I can never do. Small penis humiliation is big in it for me. Sucking cock is in it also. Would you find a cuckold weird if he wanted to serve as a slave to a dominant power couple? He would have a Master and a Mistress. Great post.
Thanks, Tbone! You seem to fit what I’d call the “typical” cuckold, being completely subservient and involved in “helping”. I talk to a lot of guys who have your exact mindset, that you’re inferior because you’re small. It sometimes throws me off when I talk to a cuckold who doesn’t put himself below the other male!
excellent post!
Thank you, Ms. Josephine! Have any of your couples sessions involved cuckolding?
Mistress Nicole,
What do you think about guys who enjoy having slutty wives, but aren’t themselves submissive? Are we cuckolds? I don’t have any interest in being humiliated, much less sucking cock or eating creampies. But I do really enjoy the idea that my wife is a complete and total slut. It’s not that I can’t satisfy her, because I can. It’s just that she’s really far too slutty to control herself around other men.
Would you be able to help a guy like me with my fantasies as well?
As I see it, yes, you’re a cuckold, just a different type. There’s cuckolds that believe that their woman is entitled to sexual satisfaction from other men because he himself is not able to satisfy her. But there’s also others who get their kicks from the idea that their wife is too much woman for just one man, or on the thought of having a woman so attractive that other men desire her. You clearly fall into this second category. Not all cuckolding has to involve you and the cuckold bull or his cum, although very often it does. Remember the infamous Henry the 8th? Theories abound that he beheaded his wife simply because he was afraid of being thought a cuckold (with the implication of impotence for him). The rumors didn’t involve the King being involved in any of the activity.
And absolutely, a “cuckold lite” can play with a Mistress! I can tease you about where your wife is and what (or who!) she’s doing, or paint a picture for you of a fantasy sexual encounter. No matter the type of cuckold, there’s plenty of ways to play and have an amazing phonesex session!
Great Post! I am down for all of the above LOL! BTW I enjoyed meeting you in chat last night. So glad you joined the beavy of beauties here at LDW
Thanks mike! It was a really nice chat! And of course, I thank everyone for the warm welcomes!